tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-78539612098911744792024-02-22T02:22:26.462-08:00The Benign Eye--and Daily Benign Eye ReduxYou know my blog as you know me. Since I've been concentrating on photography, I feel as if I've come home.For much of my life I've been a writer--poetry, journals, nonfiction. This blog represents an attempt to come back to words, to juxtapose them with my photographs, and see what happens.
This blog used to have a photos-only companion, DAILY BENIGN EYE, which has since disappeared into the netherworld of bloggerdom, so now I will combine the best of both BENIGN EYES here.Lynn Parkhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12888191288384342363noreply@blogger.comBlogger76125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7853961209891174479.post-31368950109805972402012-07-15T08:29:00.005-07:002012-07-15T08:29:48.993-07:00Whirly-gig<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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This morning I snapped at Valecia, whose feelings I know to treat carefully, who deserved part but not all of my aggravated and door-slamming irritation. I had not listened well enough and came to exactly the wrong conclusion, which was exactly the right conclusion to vent something I've been afraid to say straight-out. Because I've been afraid it's been unsayable.</div>
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<em>"How do you eat an elephant?" </em>the old joke goes. <em>"Slowly, in pieces."</em></div>
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Afterward, as I was mulling over what had just happened--okay, what I had just done, because that is the way it felt to me--I flashed on something else.<br />
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When my therapist, Don, mentioned recently that he's been taking pictures for 30 years, my immediate reaction was consternation, even shame. Though he's been more than supportive of my talent and continues to praise my work when I bring it in, he actually sees very little of what I do. <em>How could I be such a fool as to go on and on when he probably knows more about photography than I do? How can my five or six years measure up against that? </em>And I was found wanting. Again.<br />
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I must have scraped bottom this morning because I got to a new place as I mulled over these feelings in my journal. <em>There is nothing denied me that is necessary.</em> Startled, I realized that the grain of sand that forms the pearl of great price and the one Blake used to espy heaven are one and the same--and that I have what I need. I can tell my truth to Valecia. I can quit trying so desperately to elicit from Don a life-saving love I could not get from my Daddy. The real question is only how thoroughly I occupy myself. <em>There is nothing denied me that is necessary. </em>I would have said, "That's news to me." Now I say that's good news.</div>
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</div><div style="text-align: left;">Tomorrow is my birthday, so this picture of Mama and me was taken almost sixty-five years ago. The picture says a lot. She shows already and still a maternal solicitude and I, I am determined and beginning to look out of the frame. <br />
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Several years later she was carrying me along a path at a rustic mountain resort. I'd broken my leg and was in a full body-cast around the injured leg and my torso, so I must have been somewhat cumbersome. There we were, no one else around, and she turns her ankle and falls, taking me down with her. But I didn't cry out. She held me vertical and I didn't know anything had happened I should have been afraid of. Grizzly bear love is how I think of it.<br />
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The years to come were not always easy for us or between us. She has been gone since 1989, when she lay in her final hospital bed and I breathed into her heart, "Daddy loves you, I love you." As she left, she paused a moment at the threshold and looked over her shoulder. That night I know she and my father went dancing. He had been impatient all afternoon for her to get there.<br />
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Last night these words murmured themselves to me. I am pleased that they are more fond than is sometimes my wont. They are for her.<br />
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<span style="font-size: x-small;">GRIZZLY MAMA LOVE</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: x-small;">baby baby don't you cry</span><br />
<span style="font-size: x-small;">mama's going to get you a bye-and-bye</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: x-small;">if that bye-and-bye don't come</span><br />
<span style="font-size: x-small;">mama's going to get you a big shotgun</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: x-small;">if that big shotgun don't shoot</span><br />
<span style="font-size: x-small;">mama's going to get you a high-heel boot</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: x-small;">if that high-heel boot don't kick</span><br />
<span style="font-size: x-small;">mama's going to get you a candle wick</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: x-small;">if that candle wick don't light</span><br />
<span style="font-size: x-small;">mama's going to love you right all right</span><br />
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Thanks be to God.<br />
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<em>"It is an act of violence to begin anything," said Sagittarian poet Rainer Maria Rilke. "I am not able to begin. I simply skip what should be the beginning." I urge you to consider trying that approach yourself, Sagittarius. Instead of worrying about how to launch your rebirth, maybe you should just dive into the middle of the new life you want for yourself.</em><br />
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Aint it the truth? Or, as the Governor of South Carolina is reported to have said to the Governor of North Carolina at half-time of one of their yearly football rivalries, "It's been a long time between drinks."<br />
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Such as it is, and it's big enough, right here, right now, I want to do a SHOUT OUT for all the kids, because that's what they are to me, who protested and demonstrated and marched and--dare I say it?--occupied against Viet Nam. They bring tears of gratitude to my eyes. In large part they turned this beloved juggernaut of a country around and got us out of that damned war. God bless them all, God keep their sleep, God warm their ancient, aging bones.<br />
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I sat out Viet Nam. My life was too imploded. I read the newspapers and watched TV, and somehow it didn't get through. I cared as much as I could--and action scared me. Such certainty scared me. Such righteousness scared me. My father scared me. No way I could take on the President and the country. I don't feel good about this, and that's all right.<br />
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It's in the context of Occupy that I've been thinking these thoughts, revisiting these memories, thanking my friends who were out there so many years ago.<br />
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This time, count me in. I'm going to occupy my heart as far as it will reach for this country and its people that I will not let go of without a protest. I'll do what I can. As I saw on Facebook this morning, 99 to 1 is pretty good odds.<br />
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</div>Today is Saturday, tomorrow is Sunday--Easter, when we can say, "He is risen indeed!"Lynn Parkhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12888191288384342363noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7853961209891174479.post-29913846457449466542010-08-31T07:24:00.000-07:002010-08-31T07:28:32.364-07:00Agatha and Me<table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto; text-align: center;"><tbody>
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</tbody></table>Late in life Agatha Christie was a houseguest at a large estate in the English countryside. She came down to breakfast one morning and failed to stifle a series of yawns. When asked why she was so sleepy, she replied that one of her early novels was being reprinted--and the night before she had realized that she couldn't remember the identity of the villain. So she had stayed up till she finished the book! <br />
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This morning I didn't have anything brand-new that I liked for my daily photo blog (http://dailybenigneye.blogspot.com/) so I went rummaging through old pictures, some rejects, some I had already used, and all of a sudden "Lori's Diner" appeared on my monitor. <em>Did I take that?</em> I had no immediate memory of having done so. <em>Hmm.</em> Well, it must be mine, so I used it--and the Christie story came to mind.<br />
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Now I think I took this photograph at the Elm Street Mall in Emeryville, but I'm still not sure. I must have been with Barbara Boughton, but I'm not sure about that either. Nonetheless, I like it that I can surprise myself. I hope Agatha liked how the book came out.Lynn Parkhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12888191288384342363noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7853961209891174479.post-57522987891057024782010-08-19T11:22:00.000-07:002010-08-20T07:04:39.494-07:00Mr Blue at Starbucks<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgqOZVa_IShiw4Zs5h2q8RVP_-TZe2Xd2czA-RiC3MZg03hPn3Hy5P3NMhTzb7wA3Zi8VdfEP_Nsfj6iDA3ay6EuUeUSh2Eo_5A9VWoz5re8jV9EUNRUDhRtJP5aJAC7FRpLGPm3rmfJUQ/s1600/IMG_1638.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; cssfloat: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="320" ox="true" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgqOZVa_IShiw4Zs5h2q8RVP_-TZe2Xd2czA-RiC3MZg03hPn3Hy5P3NMhTzb7wA3Zi8VdfEP_Nsfj6iDA3ay6EuUeUSh2Eo_5A9VWoz5re8jV9EUNRUDhRtJP5aJAC7FRpLGPm3rmfJUQ/s320/IMG_1638.JPG" width="256" /></a></div><br />
Yep, Mr Blue is back--this time at our local (2+ miles) mall. Someone told me they had "seen" him at Starbucks. Yesterday I called first, to find if it had been painted over yet, and when I said I wanted to take a picture of it, the young barrista immediately got suspicious and worried I was up to no good! I was halfway afraid I'd arrive to find waiting police.<br />
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The tag is not on the building itself but on the dumpster enclosure. Mission accomplished, I went inside to get a pastry and asked the barrista if she was the one I had talked to. "No, but I heard about it. We just want things to be safe. As long as you're doing it for your pleasure [I didn't mention his worldwide fans!], it's all right."<br />
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A funny little story, definitely worth a bus ride--and the driver on the way home had a delicious New Orleans accent and comped me my dollar ticket after some friendly flirting.<br />
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Mr Blue, you may have gathered, is a tagger, one whose work I've been photographing for the last few years. Now, I know all the arguments against graffiti and defacing private property--and most of the time I agree, especially when it's ugly. But Mr Blue charms me and I cheer him on, though both he and I can be taken to task by strict conservationists of the public space and most definitely the owners of the property he chooses to be his canvas.<br />
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Be that as it may, I want to meet Mr Blue, have him write that name on a 16" x 20" canvas board that I'll then frame and hang in a place of honor in my home. I haven't quite figured out how to do that. I don't know if he visits his old sites so I don't know if he'd ever see a note I left. And if I did leave a note, he might think it was from the police. And I certainly wouldn't want my phone number and name out there for various and sundry possibly disreputable types to find.<br />
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But it occurs to me that I can, and will, place an ad in the personals section of the <em>East Bay Express</em>, our local free paper. As long as I use a disposable email address, what could be the harm?<br />
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I just might come out of it with my own personal Mr Blue--and another good story.<br />
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[Note: I have a collection of 35 Mr Blue sightings at Flickr.com. To see them, go to Lynn Park, click Organize & Create (third tab at upper left), select Collections & Sets, then choose Mr Blue.]Lynn Parkhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12888191288384342363noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7853961209891174479.post-18664369890435745542010-08-12T11:22:00.000-07:002010-08-12T11:39:46.789-07:00August Postcard Poems<div class="separator" style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; clear: both; text-align: center;"></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjxGexx5EUZXmRXSGSEpz32uSqHeHApAOMmxyf65iv7EwGUmux1M9BvvP77SDrL2u05u45Fy0U8u20qLy3KOa7elIHnZJ9JOMwBpXgsYhcoO_k76dG49aKdJHyn0DuvLT0NAzB1lQz52hI/s1600/img002.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="400" ox="true" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjxGexx5EUZXmRXSGSEpz32uSqHeHApAOMmxyf65iv7EwGUmux1M9BvvP77SDrL2u05u45Fy0U8u20qLy3KOa7elIHnZJ9JOMwBpXgsYhcoO_k76dG49aKdJHyn0DuvLT0NAzB1lQz52hI/s400/img002.jpg" width="272" /></a></div>Thirty other people--all strangers to me except the noted poet Diane DiPrima, whose work I've admired for years--have gathered online and committed to send a postcard with an original poem to each person on the list every day in August. If all goes as it should, each of us should receive thirty postcards/poems.<br />
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Instead of commercial postcards I've used 4" by 6" prints of my photographs and--just recently--4" by 6" file cards on which I glue a magazine image that's caught my fancy. Like a doofus, I sent off my first cards without copying down the poem or noting the photograph I used. <br />
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At the very first I sent several people one American Sentence, the 17-syllable Western equivalent of haiku. Thinking back, that seems a bit skimpy, so I think I'll send those people another offering.<br />
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Here are two recent pieces. <br />
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"Poem for My Aunt"<br />
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the old woman is dying, will die in six weeks<br />
if not a month, but already the formerly<br />
managed dementia now in full sway<br />
from mismanaged medication <br />
has taken her away from herself and<br />
those who love her, leaving her to pluck<br />
the sheet and whimper sounds that<br />
are less than speech, she who might<br />
have shed her body in the full knowledge<br />
of being loved<br />
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I used a photograph of an Easter lily in a colorful pot made by a friend. The pot sits on the table on my patio and is seen in a reflection through the screen door.<br />
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And now "How She Laughs"<br />
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she is the woman who fills my mind's I<br />
lives in how I think of myself<br />
when I avoid mirrors and hard thought<br />
unaffected charming girlish<br />
nonchalant about her beauty<br />
she has an innocence any crone would envy<br />
and the crone I am becoming<br />
replete with skin tags wrinkles and thinning hair<br />
beset by obstinate extra pounds<br />
and ridged fingernails that are too quick to split<br />
cannot understand either<br />
how this one stays alive in me<br />
or why no one ever asks her to dance<br />
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I used a magazine illustration of a young woman laughing, her eyes downcast, her hand up to her mouth.<br />
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Now a couple of American Sentences, written in response to a photograph of St. Gregory's Palm Sunday procession:<br />
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Sunshine lights our way as we go toward the darkening week ahead.<br />
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He is ahead of us, riding on an ass, on a road we'd avoid.Lynn Parkhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12888191288384342363noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7853961209891174479.post-92233214978265946402010-08-01T07:16:00.000-07:002010-08-03T06:01:48.279-07:00The Church's One Foundation<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh4CnCPzrymw2xdgeGKVkW2HKkO9SYBekdSbUJ9JV4eDg6EYEynaGfosScllOE8EElXQhAczsOX3jP-CZiWgmGZ-1ZGvjH8TlKKBaL6nLQ7dY7sWCLXt8tK6ifaZ9RY3ypvEp_CvB3jxxw/s1600/IMG_1406.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" bx="true" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh4CnCPzrymw2xdgeGKVkW2HKkO9SYBekdSbUJ9JV4eDg6EYEynaGfosScllOE8EElXQhAczsOX3jP-CZiWgmGZ-1ZGvjH8TlKKBaL6nLQ7dY7sWCLXt8tK6ifaZ9RY3ypvEp_CvB3jxxw/s400/IMG_1406.JPG" width="400" /></a></div>"The Church's one foundation is Jesus Christ her Lord. . . ." Many of us, especially those with Protestant backgrounds, have sung this venerable chestnut in church. With what enthusiasm or at what tempo, I don't know--but I do know that several years ago when I learned that the words fit perfectly to the tune of "The Yellow Rose of Texas," I perked up mightily. For some reason the joy came through in a new way. That was important because I've had a conflicted relationship with Christianity in general and my own Christianity in particular. <br />
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When I was a small child, "good Lynn" was expected to side with believer Mama against loudly vocal atheist father. Church attendance was sporadic, depending on the vagaries of my health and their relationship. But at twelve, as was the custom then in the South, I joined the Presbyterian Church--and proceeded to worry about the state of my soul. <em>Was I really saved?</em> (It was a great comfort, some years later, to read Kenneth Kenniston and to discover that, far from being a monstrous anomaly, I had had what he termed an "existential" adolescence.)<br />
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Shortly before I entered college I had an intense involvement with Pentecostal fundamentalism that at moments was piercingly sweet but that I could not sustain in my life at a liberal church school. I dropped away from the white church with the neon cross on top and early in my sophomore year sought out the one girl on campus who fancied herself a Buddhist. <em>I don't think I believe in God any more. </em>Okay, she said. <br />
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In the Sixties, I was never anti-God or anti-religion, still liked the Psalms and parts of Isaiah, just didn't go to church (much to my mother's consternation till I told her and found myself meaning it, <em>I worship God every day of my life</em>). Religion, with the exception of reading Thomas Merton, just wasn't part of my life.<br />
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Then, in 1972, serendipity led me to the practice of Transcendental Meditation, or TM. For the first time I found something good, and whole, and stable inside myself. I went more than two years without missing my twice-daily practice. Then the rhythm broke and I found Vajrayana Buddhism as taught by Tarthang Tulku Rinpoche from the Nyingma tradition. And here I could write volumes. Suffice it to say, in the Buddha I found an inexhaustible source of never-blaming compassion.<br />
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In the years to come I maintained some sort of Buddhist practice, almost always in the form of chanting, usually alone, sometimes in the company of others. And I started going back to church, for a year here, for a year and a half there, sticking my toe in the water, poised for flight despite myself. Looking back, I think there was a connection I missed then.<br />
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On a hot Arizona afternoon in 1980 I was blessed with a deep apprehension that the Love I sought, sought me and that in my heart there could be strong friendship between Christianity and Buddhism. But still I wandered, chanting as I went, occasionally allowing myself to be churched, however tentatively, for a while.<br />
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Till my mother died in 1989. After her death, to my great surprise, I began to hear a little voice telling me to go to seminary. <em>But I don't even know if I'm Christian</em>, I thought to myself. Somehow that became a non-issue and I wound up attending, and graduating from, a progressive Presbyterian seminary with the full intention to become a pastor. <br />
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But in the increasingly tense climate caused by the conflict between conservatives and liberals, I did not feel free to speak of the Buddhist half my heart. So, when six months after graduation it became clear to me that I was not after all called to ordination, my <em>Thank you thank you thank you thank you </em>began to release me back into the fullness of being myself.<br />
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I continued to attend the Presbyterian church where I had done my internship and worked part-time. And St. Gregory of Nyssa Episcopal Church in San Francisco entered my life. For a while I tried to split myself between both congregations. Then, when I had been greatly injured, St. Gregory's was my Good Samaritan and did not let me languish. That was eleven years ago. When it's right, I tell my Buddhist stories at St. Gregory's. More and more I have felt myself belonging, even when it hasn't been entirely comfortable, as I sense a vastness and possibility in the home tradition that at one time seemed to constrict.<br />
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Recently, filling out the profile for a new online social networking site, I was trying to find words to describe who I am spiritually. Over time I've used phrases like "bi-chambered heart" and "informed primarily by Christianity and Buddhism." This time I came the closest yet: "Astonished Christian with a deep debt to, and love of, Buddhism." The child or adolescent I was would have never dared to dream it. Thanks be to God.Lynn Parkhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12888191288384342363noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7853961209891174479.post-41492666556914930312010-07-10T09:18:00.000-07:002010-07-24T09:24:37.811-07:00Ducks on the Run<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjB50PlfNAEKgRGiyG4tW4ZolP9W90Cf-ayWtPRHR0CMU-ngKIcxcYHSdkNLXSE0KXjHb63eJ-tqcjoQpCzigHZNGSqsY2RG597Xne3XwlpUvMC_6KHbSkuk7AWY2IjzuBITxpxhOqdAhE/s1600/IMG_0748.JPG"><img style="cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 213px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjB50PlfNAEKgRGiyG4tW4ZolP9W90Cf-ayWtPRHR0CMU-ngKIcxcYHSdkNLXSE0KXjHb63eJ-tqcjoQpCzigHZNGSqsY2RG597Xne3XwlpUvMC_6KHbSkuk7AWY2IjzuBITxpxhOqdAhE/s400/IMG_0748.JPG" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5492313256504626786" /></a><br />
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The jailer man and sailor sam are still looking for the band on the run, but I'm more interested in the ducks that cut a swath outside my back door a few days ago. I don't know what got into them--whether it was fear of a hot wok or the rumor of good birdseed down the block--but those avians were covering some territory. They were young ones, too, hadn't mastered flying yet, were still at the bobbing up and down in the water, rump up phase. But they moved fast on land. I hope they found what they were looking for, those ducks on the run.Lynn Parkhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12888191288384342363noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7853961209891174479.post-86642757442073893082010-07-03T10:04:00.001-07:002010-07-24T09:26:48.762-07:00Disappointment<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjyu__2iCwPav1diLbupnkNo6t_yX-OloI2KJITx5rKuNZ8mreFPwvLvEBWtxzqq0pHZ65PWH9q5Y1Tqtlb-K8hdReUZca3W2JP05fwckAzwPnoP_74C0-EVHsssdp2ey_szS0iJVRx1rg/s1600/IMG_1076.JPG"><img style="cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 400px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjyu__2iCwPav1diLbupnkNo6t_yX-OloI2KJITx5rKuNZ8mreFPwvLvEBWtxzqq0pHZ65PWH9q5Y1Tqtlb-K8hdReUZca3W2JP05fwckAzwPnoP_74C0-EVHsssdp2ey_szS0iJVRx1rg/s400/IMG_1076.JPG" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5489728682357047618" /></a><br />
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Disappointment matures when anger and sadness come to sit side by side, in silence, instead of each scampering off to make its case heard and maybe even won. What disappointment knows is that there is no winning, no forced fading of the bruise, no taking back of the wince.<br />
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Sadness and anger typically take turns on a seesaw, sadness focusing on the loss to the self, anger concentrating its attack on the guilty other, both getting out of breath and sweaty, even tearful if too tired. Disappointment can empathize, casts no stones, sometimes even would prefer to indulge itself like them, but latterly prefers the calm of taking in the situation as a whole, melancholy and tart, to one-sided and premature venting.<br />
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Not long ago someone disappointed me. This is a person to whom I have given my trust and of whom I asked a small consideration, a consideration that I found was the next day denied. There was no practical negative consequence, though I thought that there could have been, which was the reason for my asking. <br />
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I think of William Blake, who wrote, "I was angry with my friend: I told my wrath, my wrath did end. I was angry with my foe: I told it not, my wrath did grow." I will tell my friend my disappointment. In the necessary meantime I seem to learn a certain silence.<br />
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<em>Some days later</em>. . . I broke that silence when I talked to my friend. "My wrath did end," and our bond continues, strengthened.Lynn Parkhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12888191288384342363noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7853961209891174479.post-77848276049939666772010-06-29T07:26:00.000-07:002010-07-24T09:29:55.759-07:00Freshlets<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg2frHrqmUuojlthMbeiVfeKCtGak2wFaxVRe0qx1Fb9Nl0cOaSGVLU0LXdyWPVEjevslxxdLC4wevCbi-8EOdZFq73BJlRhBgLgSOsLT-6CJbEmge_-XYmfHcoYp9PaTwGIFkb0P9Nz5Y/s1600/IMG_1038.JPG"><img style="cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 299px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg2frHrqmUuojlthMbeiVfeKCtGak2wFaxVRe0qx1Fb9Nl0cOaSGVLU0LXdyWPVEjevslxxdLC4wevCbi-8EOdZFq73BJlRhBgLgSOsLT-6CJbEmge_-XYmfHcoYp9PaTwGIFkb0P9Nz5Y/s400/IMG_1038.JPG" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5488202213858886434" /></a><br />
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One of my dearest friends had exploratory surgery yesterday. She's been told she'll be three days in the hospital and will likely have a painful, weeklong recouperation. I know it will be a while before she checks her email, but I still sent this picture to her this morning, with the wish that this freshlet of beauty, like the drops of water that speak to where we are parched, bring her ease and comfort.<br />
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And I got to thinking: freshlets. Little moments that catch the eye and heart, that may stop us and even turn us around. <br />
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Today, for me, it was going at 6:30 in the morning to the Coke machine at the pool of my apartment complex to get my daily kick-start of Diet Coke. The light was still new and the air was just cool enough to announce its presence. I hadn't even begun to indulge my habitual nattering that I shouldn't have so much caffeine, that I shouldn't spend the money on expensive individual cans, that I shouldn't. . . .<br />
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And there they were, these purple flowers whose name I do not know still clothed with remnants of the day's watering. I stopped and looked. "I have to get my camera." In the few minutes I was gone the light did not change, the droplets did not dry up. And I came back to see more clearly, to play with light and air and color and form, and dials and settings and exposures. <br />
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The bejewelled flowers were a freshlet, as was the interlude, as is something it stirred in me.Lynn Parkhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12888191288384342363noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7853961209891174479.post-10854212480742357522010-06-19T12:52:00.000-07:002010-07-24T09:33:28.680-07:00Cracked Egg<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgpNNUOhVEozkHH2RUlT6v_C2rq3EWKgkofFZsLgbMGn_Q2eYlNUV9WM0SBE1VYbTynqHW-fYid0tJKtUnvaxiU-M-Bh3hFH3Iqgo6fNxTZ5FVbW223vHp9GUCdMgIORSRJOR70AXFxY48/s1600/IMG_0901.JPG"><img style="cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 320px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgpNNUOhVEozkHH2RUlT6v_C2rq3EWKgkofFZsLgbMGn_Q2eYlNUV9WM0SBE1VYbTynqHW-fYid0tJKtUnvaxiU-M-Bh3hFH3Iqgo6fNxTZ5FVbW223vHp9GUCdMgIORSRJOR70AXFxY48/s400/IMG_0901.JPG" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5484575700424360706" /></a><br />
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Fragile egg, cracked but not broken open. Hard concrete. Green grass that might have been a cushion but wasn’t. I select the picture, a recent one, not sure where it will take me, and list what I see. Then I know this piece is about my sprained knee—approximately 7:45 p.m. on Monday, April 19. Never let it be said that it didn’t make an impression on me.<br />
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My left big toe got stuck as I was transferring back into my power wheelchair. The chair and I—everything but my foot—were moving away from where I had been sitting. In those few seconds before the brain could interpret the knee’s pain as a direct order to remove my hand from the chair’s joy stick, my foot was pulled to the right side at about a 30 degree angle. And it hurt. It hurt bad, and all I could think was “gravel,” imagining as I did that the bones in my kneecap were being pulverized. (I fracture easily.)<br />
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911 call, ambulance and emergency personnel, hospital emergency room all night, where I find out that knees are governed by ligaments, which I’ve pulled badly, and that nothing is broken. “It hurts as much as a fracture at first but gets better faster.” I turn down the ER doctor’s offer to put me in a splint, saying I’ll wait for the orthopedic technicians in the morning, who put me in a lightweight full-leg half cast with secure bandages. Picky, me? Damned straight.<br />
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And almost two weeks in a rehab hospital, learning to transfer myself with a leg that at first spasms every time I move it, a leg that is clunky and awkward though finally almost pain-free. And that is the easy part.<br />
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Then I go home, where I cannot transfer myself onto the toilet with my stiff leg and so must use a slide board to get into and out of bed every single time I have to “use the bathroom” on a bedpan. It is tiring and it is awkward and I basically have to take care of it by myself. My home health aide was required to quit when I went in the hospital because she can’t be paid when I’m not in residence. (It took more than a month to hire a new worker.)<br />
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And I was lonely. After the rich “people broth” of the nursing home, having only minimal contact with people made the situation even more difficult. And it was hard, hard as concrete I might have said if asked. But I was only cracked, not broken open, and unlike Humpty Dumpty I was graced to be put together again. Though it felt so far out of reach at the time, I regain a sense of that vibrant green cushion.Lynn Parkhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12888191288384342363noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7853961209891174479.post-36746070815405482362010-03-24T06:38:00.000-07:002010-03-24T06:40:34.873-07:00Two Tables<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh2fJ86hi-7GraWtxZZpxVhNpf6WjGp7OoxivOvw0W5XiO9OvtOlt-IbPBngsTTcW-hPieWCeCkpPsE45CPsR2uRsMPYIt20b9ZN7AH7w41fG3_HKBb9f3HZagVsdZgW-5rLSYKDmnvnB0/s1600/IMG_0330.JPG"><img style="cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 304px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh2fJ86hi-7GraWtxZZpxVhNpf6WjGp7OoxivOvw0W5XiO9OvtOlt-IbPBngsTTcW-hPieWCeCkpPsE45CPsR2uRsMPYIt20b9ZN7AH7w41fG3_HKBb9f3HZagVsdZgW-5rLSYKDmnvnB0/s400/IMG_0330.JPG" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5452194691123440626" /></a>Lynn Parkhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12888191288384342363noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7853961209891174479.post-13343756405496599422010-02-12T12:48:00.001-08:002010-07-24T09:37:02.741-07:00Happy Valentines Day!!<div style="text-align: left; padding: 3px;"><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/darwinbell/480451344/" title="photo sharing"><img src="http://farm1.static.flickr.com/208/480451344_babf7e677d.jpg" style="border: solid 2px #000000;" alt="" /></a><br />
<span style="font-size: 0.8em; margin-top: 0px;"><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/darwinbell/480451344/">Happy Valentines Day!!</a>, originally uploaded by <a href="http://www.flickr.com/people/darwinbell/">Darwin Bell on Flickr.com</a>.</span></div><p>I've been wondering what I'd write about, what would pull me out of my literary torpor--and this image by my Flickr friend Darwin Bell did it.<br />
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I am a fan of hearts, both emotional and physical, and in fact try to live guided by the clarity of "the diamond in the eye of the heart." To remind myself I wear a white gold ring with a diamond in the center on my "wedding finger"--third finger left hand--even though I have only married my own heart.<br />
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My heart has been tender lately, a little on the achey side. If I were plotting the story of my life, I'd be pondering the open book that is the last major section. At 65 I need to learn to lay skillful offerings at the altar of Janus, as I look back at a past that delivered disappointments on the order of the proverbial elephant that demands to be eaten and as I stay open to a future that can still offer solid satisfactions and surely some pleasant surprises.<br />
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Staying in more than usual because of the rainy weather hasn't helped my heart. When I stay in too long, I get over-frugal with my own energy and don't venture out to the new places that excite my eye. I don't meet the strangers I so enjoy, and too often I pull back from deepening with the people already in my life. "They're too busy," I say. "I had him to dinner once; I don't know if he'd want to come back." Or I don't issue the invitation to the new acquaintance whose friendliness is already giving me so much pleasure. "Better leave well enough alone," I mutter to myself.<br />
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But Darwin's tincture of pink may be just the restorative I need right now. Accessible, imperfect, actual, off-center, it invites one in, says, "Come closer, you don't have to be afraid of me."</p>Lynn Parkhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12888191288384342363noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7853961209891174479.post-36515664396169418842010-01-31T05:33:00.000-08:002010-01-31T05:36:07.848-08:00Things Are Looking Up<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgZX-xJ598hZ3kI-pd1k05geUcsu0C5Th1wdFRbV2j_sxSRoizQTH9WlUJelcZt9eOwwBAcLfNQwZZPO4G66OySBlkhv901i_eWKnShTAh2ZP2BiK8b9PgDLfMzRtbwgZIuBSvxBH72-LA/s1600-h/IMG_0059.JPG"><img style="cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 318px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgZX-xJ598hZ3kI-pd1k05geUcsu0C5Th1wdFRbV2j_sxSRoizQTH9WlUJelcZt9eOwwBAcLfNQwZZPO4G66OySBlkhv901i_eWKnShTAh2ZP2BiK8b9PgDLfMzRtbwgZIuBSvxBH72-LA/s400/IMG_0059.JPG" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5432897117037476674" /></a>Lynn Parkhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12888191288384342363noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7853961209891174479.post-7393481345181988742010-01-02T15:33:00.000-08:002010-03-13T10:51:42.164-08:00Firsts<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEho1IYotWE-PTa7fvbSdxYhNrG1nFDW80FdZFkLRjXtTEeWqnT5RLpz9cH7SsG8lqWZVa-hR0X_-_n8hyphenhyphenUL9rLRPZ5h7Z47y0Sq9_D5cdVBLeJN1dLAOtwBRfJ5Zh0bM46EdliW7Mqx_Pk/s1600-h/IMG_0031.JPG"><img style="cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 300px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEho1IYotWE-PTa7fvbSdxYhNrG1nFDW80FdZFkLRjXtTEeWqnT5RLpz9cH7SsG8lqWZVa-hR0X_-_n8hyphenhyphenUL9rLRPZ5h7Z47y0Sq9_D5cdVBLeJN1dLAOtwBRfJ5Zh0bM46EdliW7Mqx_Pk/s400/IMG_0031.JPG" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5422290272383047042" /></a><br /><em>(Some people have asked why this picture with this particular musing. If I say my friend Deb is fully alive, you'll understand at the end.)</em><br /><br />I hadn't known what I would write about first here, what would summon my heart, what would be the first cracked twig or bruised moss on the forest floor to show me my direction this writing year. Firsts are important, and contain unfoldings. <br /><br />And somehow I wind up at an online article about the recent Kennedy Center arts honorees, among whom was Bruce Springsteen. Bruuce. Who can't be 60 and who is.<br />Who wears his medal and ribbon almost as comfortably as a t-shirt and jeans.<br /><br />And a YouTube video of him singing "Born To Run" in Turin, full of concert energy and heart and heat and joy. My eyes filled with tears and my tight, beleaguered heart let go into celebration, even as I asked, even as I wondered, "What could I have done if I had had my health? How large could I have been?"<br /><br />I watched the crowd, surely swayed with them to the rhythm that held us all, knew myself to be smiling at the same time a cry was torn from me. Tears fell, as I went from video to video, from city to city, exulting in watching a supremely talented good man enact the magic that transmuted the art of performance into love given and received. I looked at the faces in the audiences. Each one beaming, a brighter than normal icon of its normal visage through which clearly shone a light that both reflects and attracts. I remember Iraneaus, the fourth-century Greek father who is noted for having said that the glory of God is the human person fully alive. May glimpsing and limning the glory that I just partook of and witnessed call me onward during this new year.Lynn Parkhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12888191288384342363noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7853961209891174479.post-14266217881968000102009-12-10T20:57:00.001-08:002009-12-10T22:36:16.158-08:00Location Envy<div style="TEXT-ALIGN: left; PADDING-BOTTOM: 3px; PADDING-LEFT: 3px; PADDING-RIGHT: 3px; PADDING-TOP: 3px"><a title="photo sharing" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/garry61/2387345290/"><img style="BORDER-BOTTOM: #000000 2px solid; BORDER-LEFT: #000000 2px solid; BORDER-TOP: #000000 2px solid; BORDER-RIGHT: #000000 2px solid" alt="" src="http://farm3.static.flickr.com/2415/2387345290_ca45473346.jpg" /></a><br /><span style="MARGIN-TOP: 0px"><span style="font-size:78%;">"10 Knots," originally uploaded by G a r r y on Flickr.com.</span><span style="font-size:78%;"> </span></span></div><div style="TEXT-ALIGN: left; PADDING-BOTTOM: 3px; PADDING-LEFT: 3px; PADDING-RIGHT: 3px; PADDING-TOP: 3px"><span style="MARGIN-TOP: 0px"></span></div><div style="TEXT-ALIGN: left; PADDING-BOTTOM: 3px; PADDING-LEFT: 3px; PADDING-RIGHT: 3px; PADDING-TOP: 3px"><span style="MARGIN-TOP: 0px"><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/garry61/2387345290/"></a></span><span style="font-size:85%;">No, I did not take this photograph--and it typifies an extreme instance of a chronic, low-grade malady I usually battle with better than fair results: "Location Envy," otherwise known as "I don't have a car and there are only so many places I can get to in my power wheelchair."<br /><br />I know the areas around my apartment building, my church, my HMO, my therapist's office, to and from our little downtown. I'll swear there's nothing left to see or photograph--but I take my camera anyway and sometimes, not always, I'm proven wrong and there's the stuff of magic there in front of me. But winter is settling in here in Northern California, which means more rain and generally cooler temperatures. I'll be staying inside more and won't be outside wandering around so much, a prospect I don't welcome with glee.<br /><br />I can--and will--set about honing my skills inside, working on macros and interior abstracts, trying as William Blake would put it "to see Heaven in a grain of sand," but damn, I'd like to be able to take my camera to the wide vistas, both metaphoric and actual, that call my heart.</span></div>Lynn Parkhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12888191288384342363noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7853961209891174479.post-20926451657360957182009-11-24T07:01:00.000-08:002009-12-10T21:11:56.872-08:00Birthday Eve<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjjpnrurF6REHtbSiU9hoCMs1yELQjGGDFLE3flvQaZ_YLCeUlszuOAz6DhAHFZosS22tWkZB-KNZVUcyf7weuCW_elPRwfFThxGQV65-JXJimqzSOlMWg7kcdKo1y4MJgNQwSUUWLn8as/s1600/613.JPG"><img style="WIDTH: 400px; HEIGHT: 300px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5407699497353468690" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjjpnrurF6REHtbSiU9hoCMs1yELQjGGDFLE3flvQaZ_YLCeUlszuOAz6DhAHFZosS22tWkZB-KNZVUcyf7weuCW_elPRwfFThxGQV65-JXJimqzSOlMWg7kcdKo1y4MJgNQwSUUWLn8as/s400/613.JPG" /></a><br /><div><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi8zp6g_MAcvjxgRWwxBd9J3Q5aWW1qm4JQLmR9B_BJ-0erl90NVIsa1Dztndwwy5mai0bQGSG0n1UZhN09Env9OAf2YhGOUhTyaAUu2O7QqB5V-8C8XXd3Tcgh_ZnkvOOSNRtcXH0pBX0/s1600/406.JPG"></a><br /><div><span style="font-size:85%;"></span></div><div><span style="font-size:85%;">On the eve of my birthday I think about my family and remember the past, </span><span style="font-size:85%;">particularly my parents. I am older now than they were on the nights </span><span style="font-size:85%;">that comprise this memory and this image.</span></div><br /><br /><div><span style="font-size:85%;">The City of Childhood: I</span></div><br /><div><span style="font-size:85%;">in the summer we lay at night</span></div><div><span style="font-size:85%;">on blankets in my grandmother's yard</span></div><div><span style="font-size:85%;">in the dark night filled</span></div><div><span style="font-size:85%;">with stars stars and fireflies</span></div><div><span style="font-size:85%;">night sounds of breezes and passing cars</span></div><div><span style="font-size:85%;">long shadows on the lawn</span></div><br /><div><span style="font-size:85%;">we lay there</span></div><div><span style="font-size:85%;">my mother my father and I</span></div><div><span style="font-size:85%;">with my grandmother</span></div><div><span style="font-size:85%;">and some of the men</span></div><div><span style="font-size:85%;">who rented rooms</span></div><br /><div><span style="font-size:85%;">we lay there on the grass</span></div><div><span style="font-size:85%;">on blankets and old quilts</span></div><div><span style="font-size:85%;">resting there between the earth</span></div><div><span style="font-size:85%;">and the night sky</span></div><div><span style="font-size:85%;">the sky dark and solemn</span></div><div><span style="font-size:85%;">bejeweled with stars</span></div><br /><div><span style="font-size:85%;">caught and held then as now</span></div><div><span style="font-size:85%;">by the slow silent spin</span></div><div><span style="font-size:85%;">of time and love</span></div></div>Lynn Parkhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12888191288384342363noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7853961209891174479.post-41840277447360732102009-11-01T17:33:00.000-08:002009-11-21T16:08:08.768-08:00Anybody Home?<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgInSbx6aNMPJRAx3-1hR4FLpVANW6Y0eMsg9IxO11LU7baxCstPcmF7u2eY5tFVef6hOf2wyTdhO57rBSP9KfSA8OdkqieTcV93uRWNvx_-a50Jwjb6GaUJLwqBcRl6WXMnqfLeb1ZmtE/s1600/DSC_9223.JPG"><img style="WIDTH: 400px; HEIGHT: 320px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5405692421850721762" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgInSbx6aNMPJRAx3-1hR4FLpVANW6Y0eMsg9IxO11LU7baxCstPcmF7u2eY5tFVef6hOf2wyTdhO57rBSP9KfSA8OdkqieTcV93uRWNvx_-a50Jwjb6GaUJLwqBcRl6WXMnqfLeb1ZmtE/s400/DSC_9223.JPG" /></a><br /><div>I keep coming back to this picture, and I don't get any where with it. I've finally figured out that I don't know if I'm on the outside trying to get an answer or inside deciding whether or not to respond. Am I the resident or the guest, the owner or the interloper in my own life?</div><br /><p>I feel like the gestalt drawing: looked at one way it's a beautiful young girl, looked at another way it's a wizened old crone. </p><p>Increasingly, I'm noticing where change is sneaking up on me. </p><p>In a week I turn 65, which brings in its wake a life review and a preview of the life I'm likely to have in the time I have left. I have to accept that the life I have is the life I have and that "I'll live single all the days of my life." The dream that someday I would be someone's beloved has been hard to let go of. Now mostly it's a dull mute ache, and I truly do value the genuine affection of the people I know and who cherish me. As I realize, somewhat to my surprise, that I have even deeper yearnings--to speak forth what I see and know and am shown--"It's not the same" is a whispered truth I have no will to deny. </p><p>I've become vegetarian. The decision not to eat beef, pork, or poultry was almost effortless once I learned something about the factory farming of aminals; I'm having more difficulty fine-tuning what's right for me in terms of fish, dairy, and eggs. My instinct is to give up fish and eggs because how they are made available to us in this society still depends on creature suffering. We'll see.</p><p>I'm watching two special friends deal with the effects of aging on their health and mobility. My favorite (and only living) aunt is in very poor health, and I realize how much I'll miss her when she goes. I realize how much I'll miss my friends as their mobility becomes more circumscribed--and know that it's also myself I'll miss as the yet-unknown effects of aging take their toll on my already difficult (not necessarily "bad," mind you, but difficult) circumstances. </p><p>"Knock-knock." "Who's there?" "Change." "Change who?" "That's up to you."</p><p>Whether it is or it isn't up to me, I'm home and I'm going to answer the door.</p><br /><p></p><br /><p><br /></p><br /><div></div>Lynn Parkhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12888191288384342363noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7853961209891174479.post-12581200448831161032009-10-23T10:57:00.000-07:002009-10-24T09:02:57.389-07:00A Coming Home<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh05IKy7Ur3_nKavN7m4PYGTcNp9PSYmo85dlfK1-PJ4gejG5P6gHW5cchk_pufTL_U42eVzp9hpqqNvbf4hgqPi5fvw75CEYRAzmEAxdqsIqLyp6sSUBOThzpZa1w4knRn-RbDwX_cdZg/s1600-h/DSCN2809.JPG"><img style="WIDTH: 400px; HEIGHT: 300px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5395856378234158434" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh05IKy7Ur3_nKavN7m4PYGTcNp9PSYmo85dlfK1-PJ4gejG5P6gHW5cchk_pufTL_U42eVzp9hpqqNvbf4hgqPi5fvw75CEYRAzmEAxdqsIqLyp6sSUBOThzpZa1w4knRn-RbDwX_cdZg/s400/DSCN2809.JPG" /></a><br /><span style="font-size:85%;">My spiritual life lately has been about as well balanced and as substantial as the reflection of this house in the car window. I've been not exactly depressed but disheartened and at loose ends. I've tried to meditate, do mindfulness practices and notice sensation, but this only went so far--and that far was not far enough.<br /><br />Next month I turn 65--and have heard myself saying things like "but 65 is in an intimate relationship to 70." I'd belabor the point that I am too young to be that close to 70, too vital, too unfinished (sometimes I feel as if I've barely gotten started living), too whatever. The issue was never 65 itself; it was always 70.<br /><br />Tuesday, as I was going over this yet again at my therapist's office, I heard myself say, "And Daddy was 69 when he died." Pow!! I got it. There's no way I want to live in a world without my father, and it feels that to outlive him would be to do exactly that. Knowing this, I've felt lighter about the whole birthday thing and more sanguine about "the future," whatever it is. The sense of being disaffected begins to lift; I sense movement within myself that is gift.<br /><br />This passage from <em>The Life and Liberation of Padmasambhava</em> just came to mind. Padmasambhava, otherwise known as Guru Rinpoche, is the Indian scholar-saint who brought Buddhism to Tibet in the eighth century. I'm quoting from memory.<br /><br />When Padmasambhava goes to the palace of beatitude,<br />do not seek to follow. Do not go with him.<br />Having known me, you will see me in the future.<br />This union is indissoluble.<br /><br />And again, "Ah. . . ." The love I have for my father, the connection I feel to him--a connection I have fought for and earned and been blessed with--can survive 70, if it comes to that.<br /><br />As I was lying down last night, I realized that the meditation that wasn't working was too rational, too determined, too forced. In my need I had bypassed my heart. But for years I chanted, something I haven't done in a long time, something it feels right to return to with all the love and yearning of my heart, with no apology.</span>Lynn Parkhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12888191288384342363noreply@blogger.com1